Third, learn the "three music "
Namely: helping others, contentment, their own entertainment. Further, that is to be more helpful when their better life, when flies generally contented, and will have to learn to enjoy themselves in adversity.
Fourth, learn the three "not "
1, do not take the others are wrong to punish themselves. In real life, many people fearing neither hardship nor death, and then his heavy burden of Yabu Kua, and then the great difficulty has not scare him, but he was overwhelmed by wronged, wronged. In fact, the wronged, wronged, that is, people make mistakes, you do not make mistakes; and overwhelmed grievances and injustice is wrong to take someone else to punish themselves. Understand this truth, and then this happens, the best way to deal with is the laugh, do not put it seriously.
2, do not take their mistakes to punish others. When they have been wronged or unfairly treated, too, others wrong or injustice to others. In fact, when you hurt others, they will hurt again.
3, do not get to punish their own mistakes. What is good? We believe that, if it is to do 10 things he can do on the 7 ~ 8, that is good. Obviously, this is another layer of meaning hidden words will be wrong is a good man, good people make mistakes. So good people do something wrong that does not matter, made a big mistake and then it does not matter, as long as carefully identify the causes and lessons learned, change the like.
BaoBao ♥

